
I want to graffiti that headline EVERYWHERE.
(via thenewwomensmovement)
The holiday season is upon us, which means it’s time for SAFER and V-Day’s second annual Winter Break Challenge. We know what student activists are against. Now we want to know what you’re for.
This winter break, SAFER and V-Day are asking you to participate in the Campus Accountability Project (CAP) to hold your school accountable for preventing and responding to sexual violence on your campus. Register at www.safercampus.org and submit your school’s sexual assault policy to the CAP database using an easy, step-by-step policy review form. CAP helps you identify the gaps in your school’s policy and inspires concrete ideas for action on your campus.
Currently, the CAP database houses 233 policies in an online, public and searchable database, which details what colleges and universities are doing to prevent, reduce and respond to sexual violence. The database publicly recognizes the successes of some schools’ sexual assault policies while also highlighting flaws. For the Winter Break Challenge, SAFER and V-Day are asking current students and recent alums to submit their schools into the CAP database to reach a goal of 300 published policies. Soon we’ll be able to look at all of the schools in the database and report back on trends across the country—your participation is key part of this national conversation.
Spread the word =)
SAFER, a great non-profit based out of NYC, is nearing the end of their online fundraising campaign with about $1,500 shy of reaching their goal. Check out the campaign, visit their website, and spread the word!
Students Active For Ending Rape (SAFER) began in 2000 as a group of students at Columbia University who led the campus in a grassroots campaign to reform the school’s sexual assault policy. More than ten years later, SAFER is a national nonprofit organization that empowers students across the country to change how their colleges prevent and respond to sexual assault. A volunteer-led organization, SAFER facilitates student organizing through a comprehensive training manual (PDF); in-person workshops and trainings; free follow-up mentoring; our SAFER/V-Day Campus Accountability Project Database; and a growing online resource library for student organizers.
Visit our website to read more about SAFER and its history.
What We Need & What You Get
With your help, we can raise $7,000. By helping us expand our capacity, your donation will help pay for:
- mentors that provide FREE one-on-one guidance to student activists;
- bringing trainers to the schools of student activists across the country;
- educating college staff and students about the unique dynamics of sexual assault on college campuses;
- allowing student groups of ANY budget to bring SAFER to campus.
by Jessica Valenti
Excerpt -
Despite decades of work by feminists, the myth that women somehow deserve sexual harassment and assault hasn’t died. When graduate student Imette St. Guillen was found raped and beaten to death in New York City in 2006, for example, the Wall Street Journal ran an article headlined, Ladies, You Should Know Better, referring to the fact that St. Guillen had been at a bar before she was attacked. When Julian Assange was accused of rape in 2010, even progressive “heroes” like Michael Moore and iconic feminist Naomi Wolf rushed to his defense. Wolf wrote a series of mocking pieces for the Huffington Post claiming that Assange’s accusers were simply women scorned and also claimed, outrageously, that starting to have sex with someone while they are asleep and unable to consent is not rape. Perhaps most disgusting was conservative blogger Robert McCain’s response: “Listen up, sweetheart: You buy the ticket, you take the ride.”
Despite the onslaught of victim-blaming and the downright apathy that surrounds the harassment and violence still done to women, I feel (dare I say it?) optimistic once more. I’m fortunate to be part of a generation of activists—men and women alike—who are fighting back in new and innovative ways. When Moore and Wolf took to the airwaves to defend Assange, Twitter erupted with campaigns to hold them accountable. Now when newspapers run victim-blaming headlines, there are thousands of feminist blogs to hold their feet to the fire. Students Active for Ending Rape (SAFER), an organization run mostly by young women, puts pressure on college administrations to enact progressive and accountable sexual assault policies. Hollaback!, which started as a blog where women posted pictures of their harassers via cellphones, is now a flourishing anti-harassment organization with outposts all over the world.
Emily Nagoski. no idea who she is, but i thank her. there is no excuse for rape and anyone who excuses it is insulting both the victim and the rapist. (via rapeisnotajoke)
There are two arguments I’ve noticed
So basically we have to prepare ourselves all the time, but if we ever give a man the sense that we view them as a misogynistic/violent threat - that’s unfair
hmm…
This guy was awesome, he even wore a mini-skirt. Rape prevention tip: use the buddy system! If you’re not able to stop yourself from sexually assaulting people, ask a friend to stay with you while you’re in public!
(via safercampus)
Provided by @NSVRC [National Sexual Violence Resource Center]
via @theconsensual [the consensual project] & @safercampus the SAFER Campus twitter!
All interesting projects you should take a look at
Cunt: A Declaration of Independence. (via ratsandcandy666)
And as I’ve read, now and maybe always, sometimes men as well.
(via strugglingtobeheard)
I remember reading testimonials from veterans from… I believe Vietnam - who were horrified at the monster they became during wartime and how much they dehumanized, pillages and raped entire villages. If i find excerpts i’ll send them along…
(via strugglingtobeheard)
A great article over at the SAFER Campus blog. An excerpt:
The bad news is, there isn’t one test to tell when someone is too intoxicated to consent to sex. (Well, maybe there is—one could make an argument about blood alcohol content perhaps, but college students don’t carry breathalyzers last time I checked so let’s move along). And so when we talk about alcohol and consent, it’s a conversation about open communication with your partner if they’ve been drinking—checking in with them, making sure they are enthusiastically, affirmatively consenting to whatever you’re doing together. Clearly people are sometimes going to get drunk and have sex. And the presence of alcohol in someone’s bloodstream does not automatically make it rape. But there’s a spectrum of intoxication. If someone is physically impaired by their drinking (or drug use), you can tell. They are getting sick, their body is limp, they’re not able to communicate clearly with you. It’s a common sense situation. If it’s less obvious, you know they have been drinking but you’re not sure how much and they seem OK, that’s where communication is key, and honestly—if it’s unclear how drunk your partner is and you feel conflicted, then maybe just play it safe and don’t do it. Instincts are there for a reason. You’ll have another chance to have sex, but sexual assault is permanent.
World Economic Forum - Women’s Empowerment: Measuring the Global Gender Gap
More accurate statistics on the global gender gap, courtesy of natures-song
Hey ya’ll - I’ll be heading out of town to Kenya in a few weeks where I’ll be able to pick up a lot of tokens of appreciation (statutes, jewelry, t-shirts, paintings!) bought to support local Kenyans who are trying to support themselves.
Please take the time to donate if you can! I will be bringing some stuff back to sell online, but going to the markets with a better idea in mind of what to bring back would be awesome.
As you may already know, I serve on the board of directors for a nonprofit known as SAFER. It has been an honour to volunteer for and help run this organization for two years. Each board member makes a commitment to raise money for this awesome org each year and I have been unable to meet my commitments the past two years.
Please help me make my goal this year.
I am lucky enough that they have still let me serve on the board despite providing near non-existent financial contributions, but I also want to give in other ways. If you can, please consider donating through Paypal or Google Checkout.
I also want to stress that I will personally give a token of my appreciation to every person who donates.
I will be visiting my family in Kenya next month (August), so I would be more than happy to pick up write you a postcard, a letter, send you jewelry, send you a painting, etc.
I also would be more than happy to write you a blog post regarding a topic of your liking. Everyone will get a personal token of appreciation from me!Thanks to everyone for being such a great supporter, even if you cannot donate. :) Feel free to reblog to spread the word!
Raise money for a great cause and get a little big of Kenyan culture too? Any little bit counts!
SAFER breaks down why policy is so important to anti-violence movements on campus. Use the Campus Accountability Project to figure out what your school is doing and not doing to address and prevent rape and sexual assault. Students have the power to hold their schools accountable! Check out our resources at www.safercampus.org to find out what YOU can do about it!
I figure this is something all student activists should watch
A resource for all student activists who want to make change on their campuses. Valuable resource.
Just wanted to pass this along!
From Safercampus.org:
Welcome to the Activist Resource Center!
This free online pool of resources will help you build your campaign, provide you with the tools you need to engage your community, and win change to policy and programming on campus!
New to activism?
Awesome! Get started with An Intro to Sexual Assault Activism.Need to brush up on anti-oppression basics?
Check out our new Intersectionality section.A seasoned organizer with an established group?
Right on! We’re so glad you’re invested in challenging your school to end rape culture. Click here if you’re ready to take on aPolicy Reform Campaign. Or check out our Support Campaigns for other ideas of action you can take on campus before or after a Policy Campaign.Need some extra support?
Check out our Troubleshooting section or request a Training at your school. For ideas on how to raise money to bring SAFER to your campus, click here.
SAFER Campus
…constantly citing that 1 in 6 women are raped without ever specifying
- 1 in 3 Native/First Nations women are raped, and 80+% of the time by non-Native (almost exclusively white) men - and the cases are almost never even investigated.
- The rates of rape of women crossing the border into the U.S. are so high that anecdotal evidence is that it is EXPECTED, but no actual statistics can be found online to address this issue. Searching for “rape statistics for immigrants” or “rape statistics for migrants” brings up only articles debating whether immigration effects overall crime rates. This ERASES the sexual exploitation and common assaults on women coming into the country.
- Rape of non-white openly lesbian, queer and transgender individuals is significantly higher than the “1 in 6” but actual statistics are difficult to come by. So-called “corrective rape” is not something that only happens in “uncivilized”/”backwards”/”Third World” countries.
- Transgender individuals are at significantly higher risk of rape by law enforcement and immigration officials.
- Contrary to assumptions, Black men, while disproportionately present in the criminal justice system and more likely to be wrongfully convicted/serve a harsher sentence for crimes, are not anywhere near a significant rape threat as they are portrayed to be.
- In the U.S. 1 in 4 college women, and 1 in 5 high school women are raped and 44% of reported rape victims are under the age of 18, while 80% are under the age of 30. It’s bloody dangerous to be young.
- 99% of people who rape are men, 60% are Caucasian. 35% of men report at least some degree of likelihood of raping if they could be assured they wouldn’t be caught or punished.
- “In one study, 98% of men who raped boys reported that they were heterosexual.” i.e., there is NO correlation between being gay/queer and pedophilia.
(via strugglingtobeheard)