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The idea that black women must always be perfectly well-behaved — or risk shaming the community-at-large – is both unrealistic and unfair. We are fighting a battle that is unique to women of color in this country, and that is the duality of asserting our individual identities separate from stereotypical imagery, while fighting for the elevation of our communities as a whole. This places us in the precarious position of not being able to ignore the pervasive effects of reality television, while still recognizing that every, single one of these women has the right to present themselves to the world as they choose – whether anyone agrees or not.

Cluth on stereotypical imagery in shows like Basketball Wives & Real Housewives of Atlanta

05.11.12 977

So i’m writing a final paper for sociology about the dynamics of food and dinner time. Of course I’m writing a section on black women and how they are portrayed in commercials when it comes to food. But when searching “black women in commercials” I came across this KGB (a phone text-answers service. Like ask Jeeves) about hair weave.

as if everything related to black women isn’t stigmatized and undignified enough.

The worst part is that there is a type of human hair extensions called “YAKI” (not yak) but I can’t tell you how many times growing up people made comments/jones to me & any other girl with extensions about how we have horses hair in our head…

So I’m glad this commercials codifies and signs off on this type of stigmatization. Labeling black women as so ignorant they go to beauty salons so someone can put nasty animal hair on their heads. (because only black women wear weave… or I guess we’re just restricted to the “animal ass hair” variety) Because that’s not even where weave comes from but LETS ALL IGNORE THAT PART.

i need to go back to this paper but… wtf? This came out in 2009. but its not like black women aren’t used as bafoonish punch-lines to sell products everyday (cue: Mary J)

05.08.12 8
Black women in the United States are four times more likely to die of pregnancy related complications than are White women. In Canada, Native women are at greater risk than White women (Main & Chavkin, 2002). A key factor in these differences in maternal mortality is access to good-quality health care. Black Americans receive poorer health care than White Americans, even when they are of the same socioeconomic status (Saftlas et. al., 2000.

Women’s Lives: A Psychological Exploration by Claire A. Etaugh and Judith S. Bridges (via sociologyofgender)

Access for ALL to healthy maternal health care is a feminist issue, and a big one at that. When we don’t speak up for those who don’t have the privilege of visibility on a grand political scale: mothers die

04.25.12 127
I speak for the colored women of the South, because it is there that the millions of blacks in this country have watered the soil with blood and tears, and it is there too that the colored woman of America has made her characteristic history and there her destiny is evolving.

Anna Julia Cooper, World’s Congress of Representative Women, 1893 Chicago World Fair

04.11.12 22
one thing about me is that i love spending my time watching shitty reality TV shows

because no matter how much I read and “become concious” i still need TV or some sound playing in the background with a storyline that I dont need to pay FULL attention to

I was raised on TV and, thanks to Hulu, can always have some show playing in the backround to appease my senses as i multitask

right now i’m on celebrity apprentice - I know I’m not saying anything new or groundbreaking - but a major part of the work these celebrities do to raise awareness and funds for their charities, is actually just selling themselves. 

The first episode all these celebrities came to raise money for something just for the photo op and the sound bite of “we gotta do this for the kids” or something contrived… we have this savior rhetoric of “doing this means we are saving the world”. If i ever make it big (thats a big if), I can’t say that I wouldn’t utilize my connections to raise money for a charity that I know needs the money - but philanthropy becomes a status symbol for socialites and that is almost as troubling as the causes they try to support.

I mean, the individuals who are able to benefit from the money raised - i’m glad its being done. BUT instead of letting Americans feel uplifted because they donated to a cause/tweeted about it/cried a few tears for “make a wish” while watching Celebrity Apprentice - but why not continue the discourse? attack the systemic barriers that are putting these charities to work? encourage people to inform themselves outside of hearing sound-bites on TV?

and then there’s the whole “men vs women” dynamic. Because everyyyythinggggg always boils down to gender stereotypes

omg i’m watching a show about fashion… countdown to problematic subject matter…

04.02.12 17

Such a weird concept. Women do better at school because we are socialized to be obedient….

03.27.12 48

More on the exotification & hypersexualization of black men. Imagine being a black man who has to deal with the fact that most women they encounter are going to impose these ideals on to them and expect nothing more than them to be this hyper-aggressive, sexual object. When you cross cultural lines, gender power structures can definitely work the other way…

03.19.12 58

and while we’re sitting here trying to place value on which ism is more pervasive in society lets take a look at this graphic on pay equity. Note that the “women make 75 cents to every mans dollar” factoid that everyone quotes all the time - this is actually the statistic for white men in comparison to white women ONLY. As a whole, white women earn more than all men of color. Women of color, as you can imagine, are at the bottom, while hispanic men actually earn less then black women.\

So can we stop trying to simplify this “well sexism is such a bigger, more ignorerd problem” when one of the main examples used to highlight sexism (the 75cents to a dollars statistic) literally leaves out every single person of color - male or female - and acts as though we don’t even exist.

03.15.12 50

Melissa Harris-Perry: The Help Doesn’t Help Domestic Workers

02.27.12 66
Such encouragement for girls to be more assertive was not the norm at the school,however. And most of these girls accepted,rather than openly resisted, efforts to modify their behavior. Clubs such as The Proper Ladies, as well as many teachers in daily classroom interactions, appeared intent on molding Black girls into more mainstream models of femininity—models that included more “proper”behavior such as bodily control and restriction, speaking in a quieter way,and being more receptive to authority and instruction. This focus revealed a perception that the femininity of Black girls was somehow flawed. I did observe Black girls to be assertive and outspoken in classrooms,but I did not observe this behavior to be consistently obnoxious or disruptive. Instead, it demonstrated that many African American girls simply showed an interest and excitement in learning, and were engaged in the class. Ironically, many educators at Matthews viewed as problematic the same set of behaviors that led Black girls to pursue their learning in a concerted and self-reliant way. In their genuine attempts to help these girls by teaching them proper ladylike manners, educators often unintentionally stifled the outspokenness and assertiveness that forged academic success for many African American girls at Matthews.

Morris / Perceptions of Black Girls in Classrooms 

Educators spend more time trying to force young black girls into what they feel is “acceptable” femininity that actually ENGAGING with them about the school work becomes secondary to making sure they are “ladylike” enough.

“no one wants an unladylike, aggressive, self-reliant girl so put down those books and cross your legs”

02.23.12 37
The historical exclusion from White, ideal models of femininity and the requirement to be independent from men has forged outspokenness for many Black women and girls. I observed this outspokenness at Matthews. Black girls there appeared less restrained by the dominant,White middle-class view of femininity as docile and compliant, and less expectant of male protection than White girls in other educational research

Morris / Perceptions of Black Girls in Classrooms

its funny because this quote can easily be interpreted to mean that this is a *good* distinction. Like “black women don’t feel included in traditional forms of femininity, but that’s okay because it makes them stronger.” It’s a double edged sward, because in one sense black girls are able to live the life they are socialized into - but once they go from areas where they are one of many WOC to an instance where you are the only black girl in their class - it’s hard for your LACK of “traditional femininity” to not visibly mark you as a defected “other.”

02.23.12 64
The stain of racism and sexism is not just for women and people of color. It’s all of our burdens. ALL OF US.” -Viola Davis
02.21.12 101
Who Picks the Oscars? White Men.

I mean, i’m sure no one is surprised by this - but these are the things we should be looking at and critiquing more harshly and actively. When organizations like the oscar selection group has a disproportionate amount of privilege on their board - these are the tastemakers that dictates the popular culture of society. Popular culture is never going to adjust unless we start analyzing institutions like these…

From Colorlines:

The Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences, the group that votes for the Oscars, is nearly 94 percent white and 77 percent male, according to a Los Angeles Times study published Sunday. Blacks are about 2 percent of the academy, and Latinos are less than 2 percent.

And all of this year’s five nominated directors are white men, and none of the 21 producers of the nine best picture nominees is a person of color.

The Times spent several months investigating who was part of the closely guarded and secret roster list of academy voters. Times reporters confirmed the identities of more than 5,100 Oscar voters — more than 89 percent of all active voting members — and found that they are mostly white, male and have a median age of 62.

02.20.12 164
From the perspective of reproduction theory, schools not only serve as sites for the construction of race, class, and gender identities, they also reproduce inequalities in these areas

”Ladies” or ”Loudies”? : Perceptions and Experiences of Black Girls in Classrooms by Edward W. Morris

02.16.12 13
Zoom The wage gap - most recent calculations:
With white men at the default, white females earn more than black and hispanic males. Black women, however, also make more than hispanic males, with hispanic women at the bottom of the earning heirarchy.
Why this chart fails to include any type of asian - i don’t even know. 

The wage gap - most recent calculations:

With white men at the default, white females earn more than black and hispanic males. Black women, however, also make more than hispanic males, with hispanic women at the bottom of the earning heirarchy.

Why this chart fails to include any type of asian - i don’t even know. 

02.16.12 151