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Zoom rationalhub:

Amazing how they often get away with citing the freedom of speech - no, that doesn’t give you the right to be a douchebag and get away with it.
PS: Quote credits: Bob Chipman aka MovieBob

rationalhub:

Amazing how they often get away with citing the freedom of speech - no, that doesn’t give you the right to be a douchebag and get away with it.

PS: Quote credits: Bob Chipman aka MovieBob

05.27.12 188
Miramonte Elementary Parents Afraid of Reporting Sexual Abuse to LA Sheriff Because They Fear Deportation

more updates on the school where the teacher was recently busted for [TW-sexual abuse] blindfolding his elementary students and feeding them his semen:

The investigation began over a year ago when over 40 photographs depicting children in a school classroom, with their eyes blindfolded and mouths covered with tape, were turned in to law enforcement by a film processor. Parents are furious because they only learned about the investigation last week.

Miramonte Elementary School is located in an unincorporated area of South Los Angeles within the Florence-Firestone area which according to the school is a “predominantly Hispanic” community. It’s unclear how many students at the school have undocumented parents but 56% of the students are English language learners, about 1% are considered “migrant” students and the school has a “Migrant Education Program” and an “Emergency Immigrant Education Program,” leading many to believe, including the Sheriff, that there may be many parents who fear coming forward because they are undocumented.

“Unlike the Los Angeles Police Department, which has a policy on the books intended to protect undocumented victims and witnesses, the department has two different immigration enforcement partnerships with the federal government,” explains Leslie Berestein Rojas at KPCC’s “Multi-American.”

Because Miramonte is an unincorporated the jurisdiction falls on Los Angeles County Sheriff which has a Secure Communities and 287(g) contract with the federal government. 

“Critics of immigration enforcement programs like Secure Communities often say that when the lines between local law enforcement and immigration enforcement are blurred, community members stop being able to trust the police and fear coming forward to serve as witnesses or to report crime,” said Colorlines.com’s immigration reporter Julianne Hing. “The risk of deportation is just too high. What we’re seeing now is illustrative of exactly that critique.”

Its unfortunate that the politics of deportation and immigration have any effect on bringing these disgusting teachers to justice. More importantly, it really brings to light to social conditions created when you know you live in an area where a lot of the population is rendered vulnerable because of this fear of deportation. There is no doubt in my mind that the awareness of this vulnerability & fear is what allowed for condition for these abuses to happen in the first place… smh…
02.11.12 58
Zoom 
“Our house was small, and when you grow up with domestic violence in a confined space you learn to gauge, very precisely, the temperature of situations. I knew exactly when the shouting was done and a hand was about to be raised – I also knew exactly when to insert a small body between the fist and her face, a skill no child should ever have to learn. Curiously, I never felt fear for myself and he never struck me, an odd moral imposition that would not allow him to strike a child. The situation was barely tolerable: I witnessed terrible things, which I knew were wrong, but there was nowhere to go for help. Worse, there were those who condoned the abuse. I heard police or ambulancemen, standing in our house, say, “She must have provoked him,” or, “Mrs Stewart, it takes two to make a fight.” They had no idea. The truth is my mother did nothing to deserve the violence she endured. She did not provoke my father, and even if she had, violence is an unacceptable way of dealing with conflict. Violence is a choice a man makes and he alone is responsible for it.”
Patrick Stewart: the legacy of domestic violence

“Our house was small, and when you grow up with domestic violence in a confined space you learn to gauge, very precisely, the temperature of situations. I knew exactly when the shouting was done and a hand was about to be raised – I also knew exactly when to insert a small body between the fist and her face, a skill no child should ever have to learn. Curiously, I never felt fear for myself and he never struck me, an odd moral imposition that would not allow him to strike a child. The situation was barely tolerable: I witnessed terrible things, which I knew were wrong, but there was nowhere to go for help. Worse, there were those who condoned the abuse. I heard police or ambulancemen, standing in our house, say, “She must have provoked him,” or, “Mrs Stewart, it takes two to make a fight.” They had no idea. The truth is my mother did nothing to deserve the violence she endured. She did not provoke my father, and even if she had, violence is an unacceptable way of dealing with conflict. Violence is a choice a man makes and he alone is responsible for it.”


Patrick Stewart: the legacy of domestic violence

01.30.12 18291
To privileged people who went through bad things

notforyoutobreak:

I acknowledge that you went through bad things.  I really do.  I am very sorry you went through that.  You didn’t deserve it in any way.

But you DID NOT go through those bad things because you’re male/white/able-bodied/middle-class/cis/straight/etc. 

But people have gone through horrible shit, and horrible shit was made worse because they were female/PoC/a person with disabilities/poor/trans*/same-sex loving/etc.

That’s all people are saying when they rant about oppression, privilege, and social justice issues. This, in no way, negates what you went through.  If you think so, then your thinking is severely warped.

However, you ARE negating what marginalized people go through when you rant on and on about all the terrible shit you went through and talk down to marginalized people for focusing on their problems or for needing to have trigger warnings on certain things.  And it’s a pretty emotionally manipulative move, to be blunt.

Not to say you can never talk about what happened to you (actually, you should, and you have spaces to do so), but if you use it to shut marginalized people down, then there is something seriously wrong with YOU, and YOU need to “go to therapy if you can afford it.”  Because all you’re doing is being a straight-up bully.  Not to mention oppressive.

hold on, gotta post this on my fridge

12.18.11 672
Witnesses Reveal Disturbing Inmate Abuse in L.A. County Jails

 

La Times:

[The chaplain]  saw a group of deputies kicking an inmate face down on the ground with his hands behind his back. One deputy, the chaplain said, held the inmate’s feet and legs, another had a knee on the inmate’s neck, while the other deputies kicked his torso, the chaplain alleged.

“Chaplain, go inside!” he said one deputy yelled.

“I didn’t go inside because I had heard too many inmates tell me about beatings that the deputies had inflicted on them and I wanted to observe what was happening with my own eyes,”

 

Clutch:

After witnessing the attack, the chaplain immediately filed a report which was investigated by county officials. Because of the investigation,  Juarez said officers taunted him and called him a “rat.” After hearing nothing about the incident after two years, Juarez took his concern to Sheriff Lee Baca, the top cop in L.A. County. Sheriff Baca said he’d never heard of the attack, but that he’d look into it. Baca reviewed the file which claimed the inmate was schizophrenic and that officers used punches (which are acceptable) to get him back into the cell. Sheriff’s report also stated that the inmate’s injuries were a result of being run over by a car prior to incarceration, not an attack by officers.

There is now an FBI investigation being held in LA

09.30.11 13
Women have been in a play, but they have neither written nor directed it. In fact, attempts by women to seek those positions of control have often resulted in them being “thrown of the stage” (e.g., murdered or harmed…) by those who had some sort of control of the script.

Michele A. Paludi Victims of Sexual Assault & Abuse

a metaphor of the historical subordination of women and systemic violence & abuse

09.02.11 21
Miss Representation: Education [trigger for... just a bunch of unfortunate facts about gender inequality references of - rape, ed, cutting, suicide]

   

“ You can’ be what you can’t see.” - Marian Wright Edelman

Statistics

Representation

  1.  The United States is 90th in the world in terms of women in national legislatures.

  2.  Women hold 17% of the seats in the House of Representatives (the equivalent body in Rwanda is 56.3% female).

  3.  Women are merely 3% of Fortune 500 CEOs.

  4.  Women hold only 3% of clout positions in the mainstream media (telecommunications, entertainment, publishing and advertising).

  5.  Women comprise 7% of directors and 13% of film writers in the top 250 grossing films.

Depression

  1.  Rates of depression among women and young girls have doubled in the past ten years.

  2.  Rates of depression are the same among boys and girls until puberty, but twice as many women are diagnosed as depressed post-puberty.

Self-Abuse

  1.  65% of American women and girls have an eating disorder.

  2.  Studies estimate that 13% to 25% of youth have some history of self-injury, such as cutting, and most studies show that cutting is more common with girls.

  3.  While girls are twice as likely to think about suicide, boys are four times more likely to actually die from it.

Violence

  1.  About 25% of girls will experience teen dating violence.

  2.  25% of women are abused by a partner during their lifetime in the U.S.

  3.  1 in 6 women are survivors of rape or attempted rape. 

  4.  15% of rape survivors are under the age of 12. 

Teen Pregnancy

  1.  The U.S. has the highest rates of teen pregnancy in the industrialized world—twice as high as the UK, 4 times as high as Germany, and 8 times as high as Japan.

Cosmetic Surgery

  1.  The number of cosmetic surgical procedures performed on youth 18 or younger more than tripled from 1997 and 2007. 

  2.  Among youth 18 and younger, liposuctions nearly quadrupled between 1997 and 2007 and breast augmentations increased nearly six-fold in the same 10-year period. 

Discussion Questions

Encourage dialogue among your friends and co-workers about the issues presented in Miss Representationand get them thinking about solutions! You can also add your thoughts to our Facebook Discussions.


  1. 1. How much media do you consume in a day?

  2. 2. What does the media tell you about what it means to be a girl or woman?

  3. 3. What does the media tell you about what it means to be a boy or man?

  4. 4. How do the representations of women you see in the media differ from real women you know?

  5. 5. What does power “look like” in the media you see?

  6. 6.How many advertisements do you see in a day?

  7. 7.What are they trying to sell you?

  8. 8.What is feminism to you?

  9. 9.Where do you think stereotypes about feminism come from?

  10. 10.How do stereotypes about feminism discredit women’s advancement?

  11. 11.How are you a leader?

  12. 12.How are female leaders treated differently from male leaders?

  13. 13.How do you support girls & women around you to be leaders?

  14. 14.What can we do to decrease sexism & violence towards women?

  15. 15.What can you personally do to change the way media portrays women?

Curriculum

Coming soon.

Suggested Reading


Can’t Buy My Love: How Advertising Changes The Way We Think And Feel

By Jean Kilbourne

Closing the Leadership Gap: Add Women, Change Everything

By Marie C. Wilson

Female Chauvinist Pigs: Women and the Rise of Raunch Culture

By Ariel Levy

Globalizing Feminisms, 1789-1945

Edited By Karen Offen

Half the Sky: Turning Oppression Into Opportunity for Women Worldwide

By Nicholas D. Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn

In a Different Voice

By Carol Gilligan

The Lolita Effect: The Media Sexualization of Young Girls and What We Can Do About It

By M. Gigi Durham, Ph.D.

The Macho Paradox: Why Some Men Hurt Women And How All Men Can Help

By Jackson Katz

Notes from the Cracked Ceiling: Hillary Clinton, Sarah Palin, and What It Will Take for A Woman to Win

By Anne E. Kornblut

Sexism in America: Alive, Well, and Ruining Our Future

By Barbara J. Berg, Ph.D.

The Shriver Report: A Woman’s Nation Changes Everything

By Maria Shriver and the Center for American Progress

Women World Leaders

By Laura A. Liswood

How could i not reblog this? Always good to have references and facts people!

01.27.11 26
The New Republic: The Rise of Femicide

msavignon:

“During the last decade, Guatemala has experienced an epidemic of woman-killing. The bodies are everywhere: turning up in ditches on the side of the road, on the curbs of city streets, and in wooded ravines, often with signs of mutilation and rape. Over 5,000 women have been murdered in the tiny country during the past decade, giving it one of the highest female mortality rates in the world, according to the Central American Council of Human Rights Ombudsmen (CCPDH), and it has been labeled the most dangerous place to be a woman in all of Latin America.

What’s more, a jaw-dropping 98 percent of these killings receive no legal action whatsoever. The phenomenon is uniquely toxic, and surprisingly, the Guatemalan government has responded in a unique fashion: by passing a law to prohibit and prosecute the crime of femicide.”

feminism doesn’t have to stop at the border guys! we need vigilance for women all over the globe!

so much to do… so many people in power who could give a shit… =(

12.29.10 14