I understand what you’re saying. The phrasing “myth of the vaginal orgasm” is the title of the article and the theory.
I definitely could have been more critical of the article in my post. I just wanted to summarize the main points for the person who asked about it earlier. Off the bat I can say that I definitely disagreed with the author going as far as saying that the women who have vaginal orgasms are confused. I can understand them breaking down the flawed Freudian theory that we base our understanding of sex on, but theres no need to then turn around an say “so here is what actually IS true.” the point is to just stop trying to tell people how to think of their sexuality and just respect the way the identify and understand themselves and their bodies.